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marni
06-17-2011, 08:10 PM
The surgery is over and I am home after a night in the hospital with wake ups every hour to either pee or get the drains emptied. The anesthetic left me with terminal dry mouth, which made me drink lots of water, which made me need to pee a lot so part of the restless night was pretty much my own fault.

The pain is not bad, except for some stiffness and some very tender areas just under the collar bone and sternum where they had to scrape the breast tissue out from under the muscle. I have done some gentle arm exercises and have a full is somewhat slow range of motion but really it's not much worse than after a hard day at the gym. I ended up with only one drain because "there just isn't that much tissue there to be removed" which is how the surgeon reacted to my fried egg sized breast sliding towards my belly button.

I will hear about the lab results next week, but am not anticipating any chemo or radiation since the other side is totally clear, and there is nothing left of the surgical side to irradiate or chemo. I will be on tamoxifen (hormone therapy) for five years to discourage development of any more DCIS but other than that I am cancer free and half masted.

I am almost giddy with relief that it is all over and glad to be home and no longer tethered to a bed by an iv pole and pump.

I can't drive until the drain is out which might be by my follow up appointment next week but in the meantime, my daughter is here for the weekend, and my oldest son ("my son the doctor"( of mathematics) will be here tomorrow night for a week to help out with the driving and heavy lifting.

I am already eyeing the recumbent at the gym, and the elliptical with stationary arms. Plus I have my trainer moved into the house under an ac vent (today's temp was 99 with 32 mph winds and an 80% humidity) with easy access to a table fan and a cd play and a couple of training cds so..... I am sure that the fact that I am in pretty good shape has helped and will continue help me bounce back so easily and quickly.

All I can say is thank goodness for early detection so ladies and gents, get those mammograms, even if they call you back every three months and it takes two or three tries each time .

Thank you everyone for putting up with my whining and self pity and offering me such positive support. I hope I can do the same for each of you when you need it.

marni

blackhillsbiker
06-17-2011, 08:17 PM
I hope you have a speedy recovery. It does help to start out in good shape. Sending (gentle) hugs and good thoughts your way.

Deb

jobob
06-17-2011, 08:38 PM
Best wishes for a very speedy recovery!

maillotpois
06-17-2011, 08:40 PM
Hang in there. Heal. The worst is behind you and you're moving into wellness. Thank you for freely sharing your experience with us.

snapdragen
06-17-2011, 08:52 PM
Anesthesia dry mouth is the worst! Then maneuvering that darn IV thing into the bathroom to pee.

Take care and heal quickly, you will be fabulous at half mast. :p

OakLeaf
06-18-2011, 02:09 AM
Hang in there and heal quick, Marni.

DebW
06-18-2011, 03:12 AM
Best wishes for a quick recovery.

redrhodie
06-18-2011, 03:31 AM
Sounds like you did great! I'm so glad to read what you've written, because your spirit sounds high. Now you can go on with life, not always worried, poked and prodded.

I hope you heal quickly!

Bike Chick
06-18-2011, 03:56 AM
There was no whining or self pity. I'd say you are entitled to some.

Hang in there Marni. I'm glad you are home and on the mend. Best wishes for a speedy recovery. You are a brave woman.

indysteel
06-18-2011, 04:11 AM
I'm glad the worst is over, Marni. Heal quickly and fully. I agree that your were entitled to self pity and whining.

Crankin
06-18-2011, 04:26 AM
I never heard any whining or self pity. You approached this thoughtfully and methodically, which is, I think, exactly what I would do.
And yes, keeping focused on your recovery with exercise is wonderful.

I chuckled when you mentioned your son. Of course he is a Doctor of Mathematics. He went to ABRHS :).

Heal well. I am thinking of you.

Desert Tortoise
06-18-2011, 05:27 AM
Great! Sounds like you are set but am glad to hear your children are around to help out. Stuff will come up and it's so nice to just have someone around for a bit. :)

dt

Biciclista
06-18-2011, 05:38 AM
get well soon thanks for keeping us in the loop

mudmucker
06-18-2011, 06:07 AM
The words "cancer-free" are a remarkable thing to hear. I hope your follow-ups continue to be so.

I don't recall any whining, self-pity, or anyone flailing in panic. I remember posts that were from someone who was positive, self-possessed, and optimistic, with touches of humor in between. You have been through A Lot. Remember, without a strong multifaceted support network, online forums included, this fight would be that much harder to successfully wage.

lph
06-18-2011, 07:11 AM
I am torn between sadness that you had to go through this, and happiness that it can be treated with such great success. Good healing to you, and may your peace of mind be strong and lasting.

Tri Girl
06-18-2011, 12:03 PM
You've been nothing but honest and strong during this whole ordeal. I'm glad the most difficult physical part is behind you now. Sending healing vibes to you and thoughts of good health.
Thank you for being so open and candid with us through this. Your courage and strength has given me hope that one can come through great adversity shining brightly on the other side. Best wishes for a speedy recovery.

tangentgirl
06-18-2011, 02:02 PM
Here's to a speedy recovery, and to you being back out on the road soon.

westtexas
06-18-2011, 02:52 PM
T&P your way for a speedy recovery :)

nscrbug
06-18-2011, 04:03 PM
Thinking of you and wishing you a speedy recovery and many miles of joy once you are back on your bike!

Linda

PamNY
06-18-2011, 05:23 PM
Hope you heal quickly. I'm glad you have some help for a bit.

malkin
06-20-2011, 03:51 PM
You sound really strong and together.
All the best for your continued recovery.

Catrin
06-20-2011, 04:43 PM
I hope you heal quickly, and it is great you have help. You are a strong woman and hope it is all uphill from here!

andiewest
06-20-2011, 04:56 PM
Marni,

Wishing you a speedy recovery. It sounds like you are a quick healer and have a positive, practical way of dealing with this.

Andie

carol1
07-04-2011, 09:54 AM
Marni,
I've been off of the forum for a bit but just found your thread. Wishing you the best - I've been there myself with a bilateral mastectomy two years ago this August. And you're right - being in shape and a positive attitude makes it incredibly easier to bounce back from. Six days post surgery I took my first post surgery 7 mile ride with my sister - wasn't much but it gave a true sense of normalcy back. One month to the day of the surgery I did the c&o canal, again with my sister, over 5 days which I had trained all year for. The only concession I would give to the cancer was to change the schedule from 3 days to 5. Give yourself patience, humor, love and don't let people tell you to "not overdo". And now you belong to the pink team...lol
Carol1

marni
07-04-2011, 07:28 PM
Carol,

Thanks for your note. You tale of recovery makes me sound like a total wimp as I am two weeks into recovery and struggling with cardio endurance and just making myself do anything at all. I try to rationalize it by thinking that I probably went into the whole situation way overtrained and my body needs more than it's usual 1 week recovery time between 6 week training sessions, but I also think that I may have gotten a bit too much anesthetic and pain killer for the surgery and hospital stay.

Of course that fact that I have to haul my FIL's 20 pound dog in and out of the house 6 times or so a day, since he is on 6 weeks enforced cage rest for an ACL and cystectomy for bladder stones, doesn't help much since it pretty much makes FIL a basket case as well. However I have started back to the gym or on the trainer on a daily basis, plus allowing myself as many therapeutic afternoon naps as I seem to need so slowly day by day it gets easier.

As for the pink team- good a cause as it is I have to say this is one team I never aspired to belong to ;)

Thanks for the good thoughts- I am trying to be patient and maintain my sense of humor but sometimes it is easier than others.

marni

Biciclista
07-04-2011, 07:45 PM
Marni,
everyone is different! and it sounds like you are doing a LOT! take care and get better.