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DebSP
05-13-2011, 03:51 PM
I just finished a really good book and tears were streaming down face through the last part. It was fiction! I rarely do this. Like maybe once before. Does anyone else cry over books? Or am I just strange? :o
Trek-chick
05-13-2011, 04:01 PM
You are not weird.... I cry while reading books too. I guess we just really get into the story.
indysteel
05-13-2011, 04:45 PM
I've cried over many a book. Fairly recently, I broke down into sobs while finishing a book called The Elegance of the Hedgehog on a very crowded plane. And don't even get me started about the end of Atonement or the Amazing Adventures of Kavelier and Clay. Both made me bawl. There are many others, but those are a few that come to mind.
A good writer can perfectly distill the best and worst of the human experience into a mere book or story. It's no wonder, then, that they touch us like they sometimes do.
OakLeaf
05-13-2011, 04:51 PM
If I need a good cry but can't get it going, I just reach for The Little Prince.
Bike Writer
05-13-2011, 04:56 PM
No, not weird I have done the same. Books that touch me most go to the essence of the human tragedy. When the author is very good they bring the characters to life and make you love them or hate them and sometimes both at various times. That is because the author is able to humanize them, a rare talent when you consider the medium being words on a page. It's more than that though, it paints a moving picture because the author has managed to make a connection/relationship between the reader and the character.
ASammy1
05-13-2011, 05:14 PM
Totally not weird, well for that reason anyway :D
Some of my co-workers were really into Jodi Picoult for awhile, so I read a couple of them. I found them so emotionally draining that I had to stop reading them. I guess I learned that I'm extremely empathetic!
Tri Girl
05-13-2011, 05:18 PM
at least you were alone. ;)
I read Bill Wallace books to my students every year in Library and at the end of almost every book I cry (most of the time the dog dies or something tragic). His books are GREAT children's books to read aloud, but I cry almost every time. Then the kids will say "oh are you OK, Mrs. B?" through their own tears.
I love a good book that makes me get emotionally tied to the storyline/characters.
DebSP
05-13-2011, 05:22 PM
Well that is good to know! Thanks everyone. It was "the Book Thief" and I almost didn't read it because the start of it seemed strange. But after I got used to the way the story was told I really enjoyed it. Here is the best quote I read about this book:
"What a strange way of telling such a story! Death is like a dear old grandmother telling a lovely story, but the story isn't lovely but awful. There are some beautiful people in the story, but a lot of horrible things are going on. All these awful things are told in a way that it makes them light and bearable and beautiful. The style did bother me every now and then, but on the other hand it made me go on and on in a book that I probably otherwise wouldn't have want to finish (I normally don't like books about WWII or war in general). Halfway through the book I suddenly realized that this for me was the first book I read about WWII written from the perspective of 'ordinary' germans, living in Nazi Germany. It makes you realize once more that it is not all black and white... there are lot of good people who just don't know how to stop evil things from happening.
I did love Liesel, Rudy, Max and Rosa... and not to be forgotten Ilsa... but I really, really love Hans.... "
indysteel
05-13-2011, 05:35 PM
Awesome! The Book Thief is already in my to-read pile. Now I'm really looking forward to reading it. I like having a good cry.
emily_in_nc
05-13-2011, 06:44 PM
Oh absolutely! I cry reading books, watching TV, watching movies, watching Youtube videos... :D
badgercat
05-13-2011, 07:18 PM
I've been known to tear up over TV commercials... and you're worried about crying over a good novel? I think you're doing fine. :p
Miranda
05-13-2011, 07:54 PM
Yes, you are not alone.
I haven't read fiction in a while. But, last couple books I loved I was sad when I finished them. I missed my people in the books! It was like losing a friend. Dhrrrrrr lol:o:rolleyes:.
One reason I don't watch tv is sometimes I can't. Gheez, my kids had on Animal Planet once... the baby monkey died... and the mom monkey was carrying around the dead baby in mourning... drama even on Animal Planet... sat on the couch and bawled my eyes out... uh, that was enough tv for the year for me lol.
Even this non fiction book I just finished I miss the author. I really loved his style. And now I'm done, no more. At least he does have a blog though lol.
CycleTherapy
05-13-2011, 08:01 PM
The Book Thief, is my FAVORITE book. I made my daughter promise she would read it one day.... I first read it on my Kindle. Afterwards, I decided that I just had to purchase the hardback to feel like I always had the treasure in hand.
Wonderful, wonderful story.
withm
05-13-2011, 08:05 PM
The Book Thief, is my FAVORITE book. I made my daughter promise she would read it one day.... I first read it on my Kindle. Afterwards, I decided that I just had to purchase the hardback to feel like I always had the treasure in hand.
Wonderful, wonderful story.
Gosh, that book has been on my "to be read" list for some time. I may have to move it up in the queue.
Pedal Wench
05-13-2011, 08:10 PM
I've been known to tear up over TV commercials... and you're worried about crying over a good novel? I think you're doing fine. :p
Oy - the Christmas one with the business woman in the taxi cab? Sniffling just thinking about it.
And don't get me started on "Marley & Me." Had to stop reading it on a plane because I was sobbing too much.
blackhillsbiker
05-13-2011, 08:37 PM
I LOVED The Book Thief! I lent it out, and it never returned. I now have it on my Kindle but I might have to have another hard copy.
Deb
P.S. It made me cry.
Aggie_Ama
05-14-2011, 03:43 AM
Marley and Me had me crying for a long time, I knew what was going to happen and I still couldn't take it! There have been others I cried at too, Green Mile many parts of it. The other day I was in tears over "Animal Tracks" on MSNBC. Depending on the day it doesn't take much to cry tears of sadness, joy, overwhelming sweetness. I guess if you are weird then I am too!:D
ehirsch83
05-14-2011, 03:51 AM
I don't cry, but I tend to get super wrapped up in stories and feel like the characters are "my friends"-i know weird! and then I get sad when the book or series ends. I recently read the hunger series and was so sad when I was finished with the 3rd book because I would no longer be with the characters...
Oh, sheesh. I can cry watching commercials, reading commercials, watching strangers greet each other at airports, listening to 3 bars of an emotional song... you bet I cry over books. Thank goodness my dh isn't a weeper or we'd be in puddles here.
redrhodie
05-14-2011, 07:59 AM
I don't cry much over fiction, but you know what always gets me? Watching sports. I cry over cycling, marathons, gymnastics, you name it. Oh, concerts get me, too. It always surprises me when it happens.
Pedal Wench
05-14-2011, 08:05 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nvmtk9CsBYY
I cry at parades. My mother used to do the same thing and we all thought she was weird, but somewhere in my 20's I started having the same reaction! The Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade will do it a bit, but the local 4th of July parade on Main Street where I know half of the people? I weep (or fight off weeping) the whole time. Really mortifying. Something about the community spirit, hard work, earnest young people, and patriotism combine to just hit me that way.
And yes, books make me cry, regularly. Even kids books - On the Day You Were Born, especially - will make me cry.
OakLeaf
05-14-2011, 08:42 AM
I can't even listen to country radio when I'm driving, for fear that a song will come on that is just so sad I will have to pull over and bawl. It has happened. :o
I know better than to even start Marley & Me. It's been five years since our last dog died and it's still too soon. Heck, I cried all the way through Bolt, starting from one of the first scenes, as soon as they showed his favorite toy - a squeaky carrot, same as Measle's.
indysteel
05-14-2011, 10:28 AM
For some reason, I cry during Christmas carols, even the upbeat ones. Weird, I know. There's just something about them, and the season that makes me overly sentimental.
jelee1311
05-14-2011, 11:54 AM
Good to know I'm not the only smooshy one out there ,I can't watch the pedigree dog food commercials because I cry. I've been known to cry watching Animal Planet. I cry watching live music, anything from being in church to my DD choir concerts. The older I get the easier I cry.
emily_in_nc
05-14-2011, 04:51 PM
I dare anyone here to watch "March of the Penguins" without shedding a tear! :(
Brandi
05-14-2011, 06:31 PM
Crying is a good thing.
I went with friends to see "The road" which is a desperate, very hard movie to watch. I was crying sooooo bad at the end of the movie that when the lights came up I was still crying my eye's out. I had to run to the bathroom to collect myself. It was awful.
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