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snapdragen
03-30-2009, 07:29 AM
Help is needed again ladies. A friend is celebrating her "leather" aniversary. Hubby is also a cyclist, suggestions for a gift?

BleeckerSt_Girl
03-30-2009, 07:43 AM
Help is needed again ladies. A friend is celebrating her "leather" aniversary. Hubby is also a cyclist, suggestions for a gift?

Well maybe I'm weird, but I can't even imagine giving a couple an anniversary gift no matter if they are my good friends. I always considered that the couple could certainly celebrate their anniversary with friends, but any gift giving I see as something personal between the couple, just loving or sentimental gifts to each other. Why not just write them a lovely card?
Way too much materialism in our society...especially considering how people are struggling these days in the current economy.

Veronica
03-30-2009, 07:47 AM
Other than my in laws, no one ever gave us gifts for our anniversary. Our 25th is coming in a few years. Isn't that silver - maybe I need to prep my friends for this. :D

Veronica

indysteel
03-30-2009, 07:57 AM
Same here. Heck, I don't even get my parents anything--partly because their unhappy marriage made for my unhappy childhood, and I still can't bring myself to celebrate it (but that's another story). Still, at most I'll say "happy anniversary" or "congratulations" to someone if it comes up. Otherwise, I just don't feel like it's mine to celebrate. If I was really close to the couple, I certainly think a nice card would suffice.

Aggie_Ama
03-30-2009, 08:00 AM
We get cards from our in-laws but nothing more. I send one to my parents and my husband's brother but not his parents because they are re-married and frankly DH has no clue when or how long. I have given a gift for a fairly significant anniversary like a 50th when a party was thrown. :confused: I usually text message my only close friend that is married, don't want to disrupt their day too much.

snapdragen
03-30-2009, 08:38 AM
I can do without the holier than thou attitude, I'm well aware of the economy.

I'm not giving them a gift, I'm asking for suggestions for her.

Sorry I asked.

mtbdarby
03-30-2009, 08:40 AM
I took it as she was looking for ideas for her friend so her friend could buy her husband something....

My first thought was a leather saddle. But that's just me:p

kacie tri-ing
03-30-2009, 08:44 AM
Don't most gloves have some leather on them? New gloves are always nice :-)

Aggie_Ama
03-30-2009, 08:45 AM
Yeah, I actually thought you must be looking for suggestions for her since I don't buy anything for anyone. Saddles are pretty personal but then again so is marriage. Or nice new shoes?

Cataboo
03-30-2009, 09:17 AM
Leather panniers?

indigoiis
03-30-2009, 09:23 AM
There's a leather anniversary?
I have so much to learn.

Okay. Well, I'm an idea person so bear with me...

A leather wristband with one of those Road ID tags.
A GREAT leather jacket
A great pair of boots
A really nice belt
Something vintage - a leather reading chair?

tulip
03-30-2009, 09:48 AM
Smurf, when I read your post, I understood it to mean that you were looking for ideas for a gift for your friend because it was her anniversary, and you were expected to give her a gift, which I, too, thought was totally weird.

Please don't get upset because some of us misunderstood your post. It wasn't clear, especially since it followed on the wedding gift question.

Tuckervill
03-30-2009, 12:02 PM
I thought you were sending them a gift, too, Snap. And I thought it was odd, too. The only anniversary I remember regularly other than my own is that of my son's. But anyway...

Leather, hmmmm. I like all the ideas posted already!

Karen

BleeckerSt_Girl
03-30-2009, 12:53 PM
I can do without the holier than thou attitude, I'm well aware of the economy.

I'm not giving them a gift, I'm asking for suggestions for her.

Sorry I asked.


From your wording in the first post, obviously quite a few of us thought you were being expected to give them a gift, which we all thought was bit odd.

ladyicon
03-30-2009, 12:57 PM
How about leather bar tape.

GLC1968
03-30-2009, 01:10 PM
The first thing I thought of was a Brooks saddle, but that might be a hard item to buy for someone else. Or how about a nice bike bag like a pannier or a handlebar bag or some other type, from the companies that make the gorgeous ones that combine leather and wool? I don't have one of my own, or I'd be better about remembering the name of the makers! ;)

Aggie_Ama
03-30-2009, 04:11 PM
If he is the type that has to carry a laptop/briefcase I have seen some rather nice leather messenger bags as well.

Zen
03-30-2009, 04:32 PM
Leather, you say?
http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb14/zencentury/MistressJ1-1-1.jpg

Blueberry
03-30-2009, 05:30 PM
How 'bout one of these: http://www.wallbike.com/brooks/bags.html

CA

lph
03-31-2009, 12:05 AM
Leather, you say?
http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb14/zencentury/MistressJ1-1-1.jpg

No, Zen, she can't give him you.


There are limits to being supportive on this board... :D