A night by myself! Yes!!(shhhh)

[Brandi]

Shhhhhhhh, don't let dh know I am happy he is going on an over night back packing trip with a gf tomorrow night. i will have the whole house to myself for the first time in two years. Yaaaaaaaaa! we are with eachother 24/7 365 days a year. Working and living together. He is probably excited too. I looooovvvvveee him! But need I say more.
Oh what am i going to eat?

[sbctwin]

I know what you mean...My DH gets the house all to himself several times a year when I take rode trips to visit sister or GF in other states, but I never get the house all to myself. He enjoys his "time alone" and I enjoy my road trips, so I guess were equal...Have joyful time....:p

[caligirl2]

"Oh what am i going to eat?"

Chocolate, Lots of it!!!

[Brandi]

oh yea! chocolate milanos, yummmmmmmm!

[crazycanuck]

Brandi-What are chocolate milanos?

Oh dear, another food...

c

[Brandi]

pepridge farm chocolate milano cookies. They are so yummy! they are a light cookie with chocolate in the middle. you can get double chocolate, mint chocolate, or hmmm I know there are like two other kinds. If I ever get you as a ss I will send you some.

[Brandi]

Back packing trip got cancelled due to rain. Oh well! We need the rain so bad I can not complain except for the fact that I won't get any riding in this week.

[Running Mommy]

Or milanos.... Bummer!!! :p

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

DH and I run a business at home together- are together pretty much all the time (and we like it that way!).
One time he went on a trip for 2 days and I was going to be ALONE! I went out and rented about 8 of the "worst" tearjerker and chick flick movies that I'd always wanted to see but that he never would be able to stand watching. I stocked up on popcorn and had myself 2 all-evening film festivals in bed....it was great!! :p :p :p

[kelownagirl]

Shhhhhhhh, don't let dh know I am happy he is going on an over night back packing trip with a gf tomorrow night. i will have the whole house to myself for the first time in two years. Yaaaaaaaaa! we are with eachother 24/7 365 days a year. Working and living together. He is probably excited too. I looooovvvvveee him! But need I say more.
Oh what am i going to eat?

Obviously this is not an important issue, but I'm curious about the gf he was supposed to do an overnight backpacking trip. gf = girlfirend doesn't it? He was going backpacking with a girlfriend?

[kelownagirl]

DH and I run a business at home together- are together pretty much all the time (and we like it that way!).
One time he went on a trip for 2 days and I was going to be ALONE! I went out and rented about 8 of the "worst" tearjerker and chick flick movies that I'd always wanted to see but that he never would be able to stand watching. I stocked up on popcorn and had myself 2 all-evening film festivals in bed....it was great!! :p :p :p

Lisa - I have a list of movies I plan to watch one day if dh and I are ever apart. We're like you two though - love being together and always are together. We even work together although not in the same classroom :)

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

Lisa - I have a list of movies I plan to watch one day if dh and I are ever apart. We're like you two though - love being together and always are together. We even work together although not in the same classroom :)

Yeah, the same!
My office is upstairs at home, his office is downstairs. We can communicate about work issues during the day in 3 different ways:
1) Phone each other (we have 2 phone lines)
2) email each other- (we do this all the time)
3) step into the hallway where there is an open grate heating vent between the floors and talk through it- you can see plainly through the grate too. This is especially appealing when I'm wearing a dress. :D

[kelownagirl]

LOL, on wearing a dress!

Dh and I share an office. We each have an L shaped desk and they take up the end of the room. I sometimes email him or invite him to chat even though he's close enough to touch. :)

[Aint Doody]

We work together, too, and yesterday my DH left for 4 nights to visit his parents in Palm Springs for his father's 80th b'day. Yahoo!!! They all thought I was so wonderful to opt to stay at home and run the business so that he could go. Works well for all of us!

[Brandi]

Obviously this is not an important issue, but I'm curious about the gf he was supposed to do an overnight backpacking trip. gf = girlfirend doesn't it? He was going backpacking with a girlfriend?
I ment good friend. a big guy buddy!

[Mr. Bloom]

I ment good friend. a big guy buddy!

:p :p :p Good clarification...I was thinkin' what would happen if I said "Silver, there's the really great woman I work with that I'm going backpacking with...what do ya' think?":D :D :D

I would HOPE that conversation wouldn't go well:o :o :o

[Triskeliongirl]

I ment good friend. a big guy buddy!

Thanks for the clarification! I just assumed you guys had an open marriage, but didn't say anything cuz its not for me to judge what works for other people.........

[KnottedYet]

I was thinking the same thing.

[mimitabby]

I meant good friend. a big guy buddy!

we have to be careful with our acronyms here! with some, I just figure it's me not keeping up, but with others, that are the same as others, like GF!!!!!


thanks for straightening us all out (big sigh of relief)

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

I was thinking the same thing.

Yeah me too...was keeping my mouth shut about your husband going camping with a girlfriend. :rolleyes:

:D :D :D

[kelownagirl]

Guess I'm not very good at keeping my mouth shut.... :o :rolleyes: :D

[hellosunshine]

when i was married my hubbie would disappear every weekend,bliss!id indulge in a 3 min sob,play some really girlie ABBA,sing,eat beans on toast,neglect the washing up,watch utter trash on the tv,and savour each of the 48hrs of being totally ME.Oddly now im single i dont think i really do any of these things

[lph]

Yeah me too...was keeping my mouth shut about your husband going camping with a girlfriend. :rolleyes:

:D :D :D

Well, I'm curious, because my bf/dh/so (together for 14 yrs, co-habited for 13, have a son, not married, so what do I call him?...) has both male and female friends that he goes on skiing and climbing trips with: can you call a guys female friend a girlfriend, like I call my female friends girlfriends?

Don't get me wrong: I'd wouldn't be thrilled if he wanted to go on an overnight trip with *only* this (very attractive, funny and smart...) female friend, but he does go climbing with her afternoons, and I'm fine with that :) I do the same, have both male and female friends but I wouldn't go on an overnight trip with just a male friend without discussing it at home. I do for fieldwork trips though.

I'm on a tangent here. ;)

[Brandi]

I tried to go back and edit my first post there but could not.
I totally trust my hubby and if he wanted to go back packing let's say with my best girlfriend I would trust them. But at the same time I don't think so! One of you said something about they thought I had an open relationship and it was not thier place to say anything.That was very funny!Thanks for the laugh!
I do not share my man with no other women. Nope not ever gonna happen, besides I am the only women he needs or wants. As far as I know. (lol)
I will watch what I write! Sorry for all the hub bub! Oh no how many have read the first post without reading more. And now think i am in some wierd perverted relationship? No offense to anyone who is perverted!
I hang with guys too. But the two guys I am aloud to go out with without my dh are both gay! But now can he go out with them? Hmmmmmm? Can he go back packing with them? Interesting. I trust him, I don't know about them? They always say how cute my dh is. Nope don't think i would let him.
Now If I went back packing with a gay girlfriend he would not let that happen unless he was there. Yea he is a bit of a perv!
Sorry if this offends anyone!

[Mr. Bloom]

can you call a guys female friend a girlfriend, like I call my female friends girlfriends?


:cool: :D You've found a need for new definitions:
ff: Female Friend (which is a non-SO GF)
mf: Male Friend (which is a non-SO BF)

Of course, now that I'm thinking of it:

DDBF: Darling Daughter's Boy Friend
which should not be confused with:

DDMF: Darling Daughter's non-BoyFriend Male Friend

The possibilities are limitless.

:o :o Mr.Silver hands the controls back to the pilot and apologizes for the hijack.:o :o


Brandi: You're Cool and a Good Sport;) ;) I think it sounds like you and hubby have a wonderful relationship and I appreciate you letting us have a little fun with your post:D :D :D

[Brandi]

:cool: :D You've found a need for new definitions:
ff: Female Friend (which is a non-SO GF)
mf: Male Friend (which is a non-SO BF)

Of course, now that I'm thinking of it:

DDBF: Darling Daughter's Boy Friend
which should not be confused with:

DDMF: Darling Daughter's non-BoyFriend Male Friend

The possibilities are limitless.

:o :o Mr.Silver hands the controls back to the pilot and apologizes for the hijack.:o :o


Brandi: You're Cool and a Good Sport;) ;) I think it sounds like you and hubby have a wonderful relationship and I appreciate you letting us have a little fun with your post:D :D :D
You guys really make me giggle! Thank you for your wit!

[hellosunshine]

then there is LAT living apart together



im ashamed to say ive only just discovered what lol meant!!!!!!!



so stuck in a time warp,eek:eek: